Monday, October 18, 2010

Ending the Sex Wars: A Woman’s Guide to Understanding Men










Dr. Morley Glicken wrote Ending the Sex Wars: A Woman’s Guide to Understanding Men (iUniverse, 2005) to help women understand the often strange and perplexing behavior of the men in their lives. There’s no reason men might not read it as well since the book is written to help men and women get along better. If it’s true that we have a sex war going on, then all of us lose by not making peace and getting on with the pleasant task of loving and enjoying each other.


Click here to read Chapters 1 and 2.


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Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Using the Strengths Perspective in Social Work Practice: A Positive Approach for the Helping Professions

The idea that people can resolve serious social and emotional problems by focusing on the strengths in their lives is an elegant concept, but one at odds with many current notions of psychotherapy that focus on what's wrong with people. The strengths perspective is interested in showing how the day-to-day work that most of us do to keep ourselves going, even in the midst of crisis, is the basis for a more effective way of helping people. Furthermore, the strengths perspective suggests that even without the help of trained professionals, many people in deep despair show resilience and actually resolve their problems by using the positive influences of family, community, support networks, religious and spiritual beliefs, and a philosophy of life that not only guides them through moments of deep sorrow but actually enhances and improves their social and emotional lives. According to Dr. Morley Glicken:

While the focus of Using the Strengths Perspective in Social Work Practice is to show clinicians how to use the strengths perspective, it is also to suggest that much is to be learned from the amazingly resilient people who navigate the troubled waters of life’s traumas. Many social and emotional problems that currently require a trained mental health professional can be resolved when people use the natural resources in their lives. All too little is known about resilience, but from a strengths point of view, it is the key to understanding how people cope with life difficulties and how they often come out of a crisis stronger and more certain of their goals, desires, and directions in life.

In the strengths perspective, the worker allows the client to involve the helper in a journey of understanding. That journey is defined by a sense of astonishment by the helper that the client would allow him or her to view his or her often-painful inner world. It is a world of hurt and sorrow coupled, to be sure, with a world of heroism, bravery, loving devotion, sensitivity to others, a helping impulse, and the amazing moments in time when even the most hardened and destructive among us reach out to others and act in ways that can only fill us with immense joy at the unpredictability of the human spirit. It is an approach to helping that uses what works for people to dominate the discussion of how those in difficulty can get better. For the depressed client who struggles with the urge to give up, every day must be an act of bravery to bathe, dress, take care of family, work, pay bills, and nurture children, spouses, and loved ones. Most of that behavior suggests an extraordinary effort to cope that is, from our perspective, moving and heroic. The pathology model would view that behavior in no specific way, choosing instead to focus on feelings of depression and the difficulty in making emotional progress. The strengths perspective would wonder what prompts the person to do as well as he or she does. It would ask what internal and external mechanisms propel the person to get on with life even if the struggle is often more than he or she can take.

I believe that as the client begins to appreciate what is good, functional, and positive about him- or herself, the mechanisms used to achieve success in one area of life will transfer over to those areas of life that are more problematic. It seems to me, then, that the essence of the strengths perspective is the belief that focusing on what is good about the client will provide more real gain than focusing on what is bad. And while this is more easily said than done, this book is about helping people get well who are in serious social and emotional difficulty. By getting well, I mean living with an absence of internal emotional pain and providing the society we live in with the benefits of these people’s talents and abilities. A practice approach that fails to encourage socially responsible behavior fails, in my view, to truly help people.

This book is written for the brave and resolute among us who fight the daily battle of survival against all odds, and who often win. But it is particularly written for my daughter Amy and for my sister Gladys, who are the best example I know of people who use the strengths perspective every day of their lives—and who are wise, caring, and loving people as a result.

Learning From Resilient People: Lessons We Can Apply to Counseling and Psychotherapy

This book is about the ways resilient people navigate the troubled waters of life’s traumas. A number of researchers believe that resilience is the key to understanding how people successfully cope with traumatic life events and why they often come out of a crisis stronger and more certain of their goals and directions in life than before the crisis.  Although we think we know what it means to be resilient, we know far less about why some people are resilient, or how their resilience functions across the life cycle and through multiple life events. All of these issues will be discussed at length in this book, which continues the development of ideas found in two other books by Dr. Morley Glicken—Using the Strengths Perspective in Social Work Practice: A Positive Approach for the Helping Professions (Pearson, 2004) and Improving the Effectiveness of the Helping Professions: An Evidence-Based Approach to Practice (Sage, 2005)—who explains:


In both books I’ve argued for a knowledge-guided approach to practice that focuses on client strengths. Much of what I’ve found in researching each book leads me to believe there is demonstrable evidence that many people are resilient and that we can learn about how they cope with traumas and apply those successful approaches to people’s lives.

Instead of writing a purely research-oriented book, I’ve tried to combine the current research with stories resilient people have shared with me about the traumas they’ve successfully dealt with. I’ve then compared their coping strategies with the existing research. Although Chapter 1 describes the way stories from resilient people are analyzed, the process of gathering stories about resilience needs to be explained. I asked people at professional and social functions, friends, colleagues, and people I met randomly who had stories of resilience to send them to me. The stories were to contain the traumas experienced by the storyteller, when they were experienced, what the storyteller did to cope with the traumas, and why the storyteller’s coping approaches seemed to work. The stories were then to be compared to the existing research on resilience to confirm or depart from current beliefs about resilience. The coping strategies that were clearly identified by storytellers and seemed consistent throughout the book would then be summarized in a series of suggestions for clinical practice.

This approach combines the objective with the more subjective. Although the stories included are single events, and generalizing to other populations of people experiencing similar traumas may be difficult, there is much to be learned from a more subjective approach. Proving or disproving theories of resilience becomes more likely when the bulk of the more than 50 stories included in the book agree or disagree with existing research. This approach also answers more fundamental questions about resilience throughout the life span and the ability of resilient people to cope with multiple traumas. Since I have included interviews with many of the people whose stories appear here, the reader has an opportunity to obtain additional information about resilience not necessarily included in the stories.

Like many of us who grew up in families that were overwhelmed with life problems, I learned about resilience from my blue-collar, immigrant parents. They dealt with illness, lack of finances, social isolation, and the bigotry of people against immigrant Jews in ways that modeled resilience. But being resilient and surviving serious life problems, while still achieving at a high level, isn’t done without a price, and the reader will note throughout this book that resilience is defined as successful social functioning. Some readers will take exception to this belief, feeling that truly resilient people must necessarily be happy and self-fulfilled.

Not everyone is resilient, of course, and to remember the many among us who suffer because of the harm done to them by others, this book is written for the abused and neglected, the homeless and the hungry, the victims of terror, the immigrants who suffer indignities to the body and to the spirit, the children who grow up with violence, and to our fellow citizens who live with unimaginable social and emotional pain. Their anguish should motivate us to open our hearts and minds to new ideas and, in Bertrand Russell’s words, to have “unbearable sympathy for the suffering of others.”

Monday, October 11, 2010

Evidence-Based Practice With Emotionally Troubled Children and Adolescents


Dr. Morley Glicken is the author of Evidence-Based Practice with Emotionally Troubled Children and Adolescents (Elsevier, 2009) and a number of other professional books whose objective is to improve the effectiveness of the help social workers provide to a variety of clients. This book on evidence-based practice with children and adolescents comes from a deep sense of concern that not only are we misdiagnosing children by giving them adult diagnostic labels; we’re also using untested, sometimes dangerous medications for children who could benefit from the kind and helpful support and behaviorally significant services provided by human service professionals. Says Dr. Glicken:

I’m also very concerned about the youth of America, particularly those most at risk. I hope you share that concern, and I challenge you to think about children in a more positive and hopeful way so that you use your bully pulpits as professionals and as nonprofessionals to develop new and exciting approaches to work with America’s youth.

Although I wrote this book for human service professionals, I think interested nonprofessionals and parents will benefit from reading it. I don’t think you’ll find it difficult at all to understand.

In my book I cover the many diverse problems affecting children and adolescents and the treatment approaches with best evidence of effectiveness. Because research on children and their emotional problems is often scant or flawed, it’s fine if your own experiences suggest other paths to follow. Let me know what works in your practice with children.